I had nothing off him by email, then got this tonight via Ebay from the claim:
'a full refund is being offered once the wheels have been returned and i have checked them myself. you are liable for the return cost as you are responsible for signing for the delivery stating that item had been checked and was un damaged. i do not usually refund items and have been as helpful as possible but unfortunately some people seem to want more than they are entitled to. like i stated i will refund the full amount £190, once i have the item returned to myself. you have until friday 8th of march to return the item for a full refund. thanks and just to clarify i offered you help towards repair and two new replacement wheels and a refund over the phone so opening this case is quite pointless and a waste both our times considering this was caused by damage in transit by the courier that you did not check for before signing the paperwork, maybe this will make you learn to check things in future rather than getting other people to take in your deliveries.'
What he hast put here is false. He did NOT offer two new replacement wheels as he stated they were too expensive at £110 each (total sale £190). The cost of repair was £50 per wheel plus £100 per wheel for re-finishing, at the cheapest it would have cost £150 up to £300, and he offered £50 towards repair. He offered only a £175 refund to me on return, not the full £190.
On the courier signing issue. I have stated to him that my elderly disabled parents would have been unable to physically check the goods, even if they had been given the time. Had they checked the goods it is unlikely they would have noticed the damage themselves. I advised him that couriers are usually open to discussion on issues within a day or so providing there is sufficient insurance in place, and sufficient packaging - there was nothing in the boxes other than the rims, no bubble wrap or anything. I also stated that the wheel repair specialist queried how such force could be applied by a courier to cause such damage, and why only to the outer part of the rims?
In addition to this I quoted Ebay regulations on DSR:
The Consumer Protection (Distance Selling) Regulations 2000 generally apply to sales to consumers made by sellers acting in the course of a business, which have been made at a distance (in other words, where there's no face-to-face contact between the seller and the consumer before the contract is made). The Distance Selling Regulations apply to items purchased via Buy it now listings and Second Chance Offers on eBay.co.uk. However, they don't apply to auction-style listings on eBay.co.uk.
These regulations provide a period of 7 working days after the date of receipt within which the consumer can cancel the contract (often referred to as the "cooling off" period) and get their money back, including the original postage and packing charges. The consumer may be asked to return the goods at their own expense, but only if the seller informed them of this requirement before the contract was made (otherwise, the seller is responsible for collecting the goods).
So whilst he is now offering the full refund (though threatening a time limit for return), do I have to pay the courier costs for return or should it be collected and paid for by him?
I do now have strong suspicions that the goods could well have not been damaged in transit but possibly the damage was present before the items left in the first place!